How to Choose the Perfect Diamond Engagement Ring!

For our next installment of “Intern Blogs” we are delighted to introduce you to Gemma, who has been with us since September 2015. Over to you Gemma, to tell us more about an area of weddings that you love (and we do to!) – Diamonds ……

Gemma’s Blog
My name is “Gemma”, which is derived from the Italian meaning ‘precious stone.’ And whilst unfortunately, to my knowledge, I do not have any Italian ancestry, I do, however believe that this inspired my love for gems. I like to think my parents chose my name as they see me as precious to them, but the fact that they named their second child, Joshua, which means ‘saviour,’ casts a shadow of doubt.

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Stunning diamond cluster ring (left) and diamond heart-shaped single stone ring (right). Pictures courtesy of FEU Diamonds

So, for this blog I decided to investigate one of my favourite things – DIAMONDS – and their influence on the wedding market.

‘Diamonds are a girl’s best friend’ is a well known quote by Marilyn Monroe and it appears the bridal community have embraced this sentiment with open arms. Despite the increasing popularity of other precious stones such as rubies, emeralds and sapphires, diamonds still remain the ultimate favourite for engagement and wedding rings.


Photo courtesy of Kate Nielen taken at a Stylish Events Wedding.

A diamond is pure crystallised carbon brought to the surface, encased in solidified magma, during a volcanic eruption. Amazingly, a diamond can only be cut by another diamond as it’s the hardest substance known to man. They are mined across the world and particularly prevalent in Australia, Russia and South Africa.


Three popular engagement ring styles (left to right) – diamond single stone ring; modern 3-stone diamond ring; marquise diamond ring. Picture courtesy of FEU Diamonds

With Diamonds representing strength, endurance and beauty it’s hardly surprisingly that in 1939 De Beers, a diamond company, decided to harness this idea and market the diamond as the ultimate symbol of unbreakable love. Using the clever slogan of ‘Diamonds are Forever’, the diamond industry was on the up! By the mid 1940’s sales had increased by half and the diamond was the most common style of engagement ring. Still to this day the diamond is the most popular choice and even now, in 2015, De Beers promotes it’s products using the phrase ‘A Diamond is forever.’


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Vintage style with surrounding diamonds on the head and shank. Pictures courtesy of FEU Diamonds

A diamond’s worth is determined by a number of factors, however together we can navigate our way through the jewellery jargon by focusing on the following four caterogies, affectionately known as the 4C’s: Colour; Clarity; Cut; Carat Weight.

The colour of a diamond can be anything from colourless to brown and it is the responsibility of the Gemological Institute of America, GIA, to compare each diamond against a master set in order to determine the grading. They are graded from D (colourless) down to Z (dark brown). The higher the grading, the better the colour, and more often than not, the greater the worth.


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The GIA also grades the clarity of the diamond based on the number and location of the internal flaws (inclusions) and surface characteristics (blemishes). These features are only taken into consideration if they are visible under 10x magnification. There are eleven grades of clarity ranging from Flawless to I3. The higher the grade (i.e. the closer it is to flawless, generally the greater the worth of the diamond.


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Defining the cut of a diamond is somewhat difficult as it considers the overall appearance and quality of the diamond. The GIA grades the round brilliant diamonds from Excellent to Poor by assessing many features including brightness, symmetry, and polish. (Note, the cut of a diamond is not the same as it’s shape). The round brilliant diamond is not the only shape of diamond; there are a number of other exciting shapes too! The radiant, pear and marquise are also typically used in rings – some people even have a heart shaped one!


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Carat Weight
Carat weight is the standard unit of measurement for diamonds. It is measured in the GIA laboratory and rounded to the nearest hundredth of a carat. As a rule of thumb, one carat is the equivalent of 0.2 grams and again the greater the number of carats the higher the price of the diamond.

The 4C’s define the quality of the diamond and influence it’s worth. Nevertheless, De Beers is correct in the sense that a diamond IS forever. So where do we go from here?


Photo courtesy of Kate Nielen taken at a           Stylish Events Wedding.

The world of rings, diamonds, jewellery and quite frankly weddings themselves is a minefield! Please don’t be put off by the vast amount of choice; you would think that the more options you have the easier the choice – but that’s really not the case. It’s ok to find the experience daunting, but it’s not ok to choose a ring because your friends like it, because your future mother-in-law says so, or because you can’t decide so you just picked any old one.


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A ring is yours to keep for eternity; a symbol of your love and commitment to your partner. If your partner chooses it, and it’s perfect, then good for you! However, many couples go shopping together whilst some women leave carefully placed magazines around the house or accidentally leave a ring on the computer screen!

Shop around; have fun; make a day of it! Whatever takes your fancy. You don’t need to buy the first one you try on – take your time and try a few. Cliched as it sounds – everyone is different. If every single bride, liked the same kind of ring, the world would be a very sad and a lot less sparkly place.

I like the vintage style rings, whilst my best friend likes the heart-shaped diamonds and my cousin is drawn to the 3 stone ones. All three of us like different styles, but that’s what makes us different. So, use your ring to celebrate you personality and choose a ring that suits you. Your ring is yours to keep; pick one that makes you happy. If you look down at your hand and smile when you see it, then you know you’re on to a winner.

Fingers crossed that my future husband will read this blog and make detailed notes! Vintage please, no pressure and good luck!

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Best of Britten

Gooooooood morning London! and how are you today? are you as confused as me by this snow in March? suddenly those warnings of global warming don’t seem so crazy anymore do hey?! lol

Anyway moving swiftly on, it’s really been go go goooo at the Stylish Event camp this past week, our Hedsor House couples wedding is next weekend, so we’re firing on all cylinders, crossing all the ‘T’s’ dotting all the ‘I’s’ and just generally making sure everything is all set and prepped for the big day. It’s going to be such a beautiful wedding, really looking forward to seeing all the gorgeous hand picked decor pieces (some of which have come from as far as India!) all put together on the day – that’s one of the elements of this job that I love; seeing all the little things we have been sourcing and organising all finally fit together like pieces in a jigsaw and your finally able to take a step back and fully admire all hard work that went into creating this beautiful day!

Talking of beautiful, it’s time to introduce todays ‘Supplier of the Week’! I discovered Sarah Bates of ‘Britten’- who designs and creates handcrafted luxury wedding accessorie via Not On The High Street (A site I have more than raved about in past posts – I’ve even purchased a few items from there for family and friends – FAB – trust me, check it out) By now you will have guessed I’m a walking magpie for all things, shiny, blingy and  just plain glittery, so when I spied Sarah’s BEAUTIFUL wedding accessories on NOTH (For future reference Not On The High Street will be shortened to NOTH lol) I catapulted into love with her whole range.

But you dont want to hear what I have to say, The ‘creative Think-Box’ behind ‘Britten’ – Sarah- shared with me her thoughts and feelings behinds what  makes her accessories the best of ‘Britten’

 So Sarah, where do you draw your inspiration from for your accessories?

“My main inspiration is the iconic fashion of times gone by, the glitz of the twenties, the glamour of the thirties and forties, and the femininity of the fifties, Britten’s collections of bridal accessories are designed to be both timeless and treasured.”

 What do you feel sets you apart from other companies in your industry?

“Each and every piece is entirely handmade to order from our quaint workshops located just outside Bath. The designs are not traditionally bridal from opulent ostrich feather fans to intricately embellished purses.”

What’s your favourite piece, that you’ve designed for a client?

“My favourite ever bespoke design was a pale grey ostrich feather headpiece with handbeaded deco detail.”

So now you’ve had a sneak peak into the mind of the creative talent at ‘Britten’ let me not dilly dally and allow you ample drooling time, to peruse through the selections of Sarah’s Wedding Accessories – enjoy!handbags-britten*Photo’s taken by David Wickham of ‘Modern Vintage Weddings’* Clock wise from Top right: Jemima Floral Silk purse, Lily Deco Silk Bag, Esther Pheasant Bridal Purse, Mae Blush Feather wedding and Bridal Purse, Audrey Silk and Lace Wedding and Bridal Purse, Percy silk beaded deco bagaccessories-britten*Photo’s taken by David Wickham of ‘Modern Vintage Weddings’* Clock wise from Top right: Elizabeth Floral Headpiece, Grace Silver Deco Cuff, Ruby Deco Ostrich Feather Headband, Rosalie Floral Crystal and Pearl Necklace & Beatrix Deco Bridal Headband or Belt.

feather fans-britten*Photo’s taken by David Wickham of ‘Modern Vintage Weddings’* Clock wise from Top right: Mattie Twenties Grey Ostrich Feather Fan, Jessie Art Deco 1920’s Ostrich Feather Fan, Imogen Bridal Peacock Feather Fan, Fleur Rose and Peal Feather Fan &Elsie Peacock Fan

I hope you enjoyed todays post! personally I’m in love with that beautiful ‘Esther Pheasant Bridal Purse’ I would rock that bag wedding or no wedding damn it! it’s simply too fab to be limited to one days use! lol Make sure you head over to the ‘Britten’ site and have a look at other goodies Sarah has in shop!

OH! keep you eye on the blog, for little Sunday Bridal inspiration;  I’ve got a lovely Moodboard coming your way!

Stay blessed and we’ll speak again soon.